Working with not so experienced.

Last night at the last minute I got a call for a duo. 

It was with a friend of mine who isn’t in the business hardcore like I am. She will fuck for a buck, but only with those who approach her with the offer. 

To cut a long story short, she said there is a guy who wants to have 3 some and she wanted to know if “I was down for the flex”. Obviously I was down, but I let her know my price and restrictions. 

When we got there, it was 2 black guys (which I was expecting anyway). We spent an HOUR smoking and drinking before we actually did the dead. Thank you for the free liquor and the weed, but I get paid in $$$$. 

Anyway after I was feeling tips, and an hour and a half had gone by, me and her hit the room to get things started, 35 minutes into it, I realize nobody really had intentions of stopping so I cut it short and said I had to go.

The guy was pissed that I cut him short, but he needs to understand that I’m not a hoodrat who’s down to fuck if you have some cash (no offense to my friend, I’m not saying she is a hoodrat). This is my line of business, and you are paying for the TIME not the fuck.

Now, we spent roughly 2 hours there, in my world, that 2 hours would have cost that nigga $400 for me ALONE, not including my friend, but she is a rookie to the game, and the damage had been done. I didn’t want to short cut her money, cuz she is a good friend of mine at the end of the day. I just started counting down the minute I took my pants off. 

Having said I learned a lesson for myself, when it comes to doing duos. I’d rather work someone who is experienced in the game, or just let me take care of the money talk, because next time, I start counting down soon as I walk through the front door, and when time is up time is up I don’t care who took fuck or not. 

Just saying

Angrystripper #1

Once a mistake….

I made a lot of money last year. Some days I was pocketing half a grand easy. I would just grab my money stack it up neatly and just stare it at sometimes, reminding myself that THIS is why am I am dancing and/or escorting. 

I had a goal for 2011, to make a lot of money and I did that. What I didn’t do was SAVE. I have to come to realize that I have only myself to blame for this. Despite any financial situations that happened last year that was out of my control, I had the opportunity to save $200-$400 even more than that a month, and I didnt. 

I ended 2012 as a full-time employed lesbian bad bitch, but right now, 9-5 just isn’t right for me. Not making no $10-$13/hr at least. I have a lot of expensive goals and little patience. 

I am not the biggest fan of selling myself for any amount of cash, but at the same time, I am not ashamed. I am not ashamed of SURVIVING. 

I am a survivor at the end of the day, there hasn’t been a situation i haven’t been able to get myself out of. So why didn’t I save even $1000?

I went to Windsor last night to meet an old customer. This is my second customer since I started tricking again. Coincidentally, both customers I have sen are returning customers some things never change huh?

Anyway, when I got to the Windsor and we checked in at Caesar Hotel, my customer who missed me SO MUCH, booked us the executive suite on the top floor.  Talk about a treat

(This is just the living room. You know this damn room is 2400 sq ft? This shit is bigger than my whole damn townhouse!)

So it’s day 2 of my trip and I couldn’t help but think to myself, look at me. I am laying hear infront of the Tv in this beautiful room, i can order anything on the menu and out of all things, I order a burger and a pack of cigrettes. 

You see the genuine side of me says, just get enjoy your “vacation” from the city and get your money and go home and on to the next one. 

The bad bitch in me says, “Wake the fuck up bitch” go hard or go home. If these motha fucka’s willing to buy fine champagne and book me executive suites, I should be TAKING ADVANTAGE of the moment and getting everything I can out of it. 

Having said that, I just picked out a new bedroom set and a living room set for my new empty townhouse that I am trying to furnish. By the time I leave here, i will have a delivery date for either both or one of the two things AND my money. 

Then I will be able to go back with a smile not regretting why I am back on my hustle and remembering why I came back, because I am a bad bitch,  I can make money, and enjoy the BENEFITS of beings an escort. 

So, this year, I’m going hard. Getting my passport soon as I go home so I can cross the border. I am buying a safe and I depositing my first $100 to SAVE. 

See last year I made the money but I made the mistake of not saving, or putting it towards things that I need immediatetly.

This year I WILL NOT be no fool.

Angrystripper #1

I GOT A DUI

quit my job now im hoein

An answer to a question that was previously asked….

I deleted the question for confidentiality reasons, the question was basically asking how to keep your identity hidden while working at the clubs. (Dancers/customers that my know you, etc)

Sorry for the late response, I am not sure when you wrote this so I am unable to refer to the post you made on your blog. 

The thing about becoming a stripper is that you have to accept the fact that someone will most likely see you, especially if you are working at a local club close to home. 

The only way you can lessen your chance of someone you know seeing you is if you work out of town and even still that doesn’t completely eliminate the chance. I have gone to clubs in London, Bradford, etc and have seen girls from Toronto that I didn’t even know stripped until I seen them out of town. 

The only advice I can give you is to be proud of what you are doing. You should not have to feel ashamed of surviving. The day you made the decision to become a stripper is the day you decided that you were going to take that chance and do what you have to do. 

The day I decided I was going to start dancing, the first person I told was my mother and that was out of respect. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you (or anyone) who chooses to keep their lives discrete disrespectful, because my mother doesn’t know that I escort. I am just saying, out of respect, I told my mother that I am going to start dancing because I knew that someday, it would get out there and back to her and would have rather she heard it from me. 

So again, either start working out of town, the further away from home the better, or just accept the fact that people you know are going to see you, whether its girls working or guys coming to the club to catch a good show or a dance. 

Angrystripper #1